Kuti musinthe moyo wanu, sinthani zizolowezi zanu

Kuti musinthe moyo wanu, sinthani zizolowezi zanu

Wolemba mbiri waku America William Durant anati: “Ndife zimene timachita tsiku ndi tsiku. Pankhaniyi, kuchita bwino sikuchita, koma chizolowezi. Izi ndi zoona osati za luso, komanso zosiyana zake. Wamba, zotsatira za zizolowezi wamba. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mutha kukulitsa luso lanu posintha zizolowezi zanu. Komabe, sizikutanthauza kuti zinthu zidzakuyenderani bwino. Mukangotengera zizolowezi za Elon Musk, simudzakhala Elon Musk wachiwiri. Muyenera kusinthiratu khalidwe lanu.

Wamalonda Darius Foroux adayika pabulogu yake momwe mungakulitsire ndikutsatira zizolowezi zomwe mukufuna.

1. Sankhani zizolowezi zomwe mukufuna

Timamva za chizoloŵezi china chothandiza ndipo nthawi yomweyo timasankha kuchichita m'moyo wathu. Koma ganizirani ngati mukuzifunadi. Kodi muyenera kudzuka 5 koloko m'mawa, kuthamanga kapena kudya masamba osaphika?

Zingakhale zothandiza kwambiri kuti mudzuke mofulumira. Kapena mwinamwake mumakwiya ndi kudandaula m'mawa, ndipo zimawononga tsiku lanu lonse. Choncho dzifunseni ngati chizoloŵezi chimenechi chingakuthandizeni kukhala ndi moyo wabwino.

Komanso, payenera kukhala chifukwa chomveka chosinthira. Mwachitsanzo, mumafuna kuwerenga buku limodzi pamlungu, koma n’chifukwa chiyani mukufunikira? Idzakupatsa chiyani? Kodi n’chiyani chingakuthandizeni kukwaniritsa? Ganizirani izi ndikusankha zizolowezi zomwe zingakufikitseni pafupi ndi zotsatira zomwe mukufuna.

2. Gwiritsirani ntchito zizolowezi imodzi imodzi

Nthawi zina mumafuna kusintha zonse mwa inu nthawi imodzi. Mwasankha kuti muwerenge zambiri, muzigwira ntchito bwino, mudye bwino, muzichita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Pankhaniyi, ndi bwino kuchepetsa changu chanu. Kuthana ndi zizolowezi zambiri nthawi imodzi kumangopangitsa kuti mukhale ndi nkhawa zosafunikira.

Timadzikuza tokha. Timaganiza kuti tingapindule zambiri m’kanthawi kochepa. Izi sizowona. Koma kwa nthawi yayitali ndizotheka. Choncho ganizirani za chizoloŵezi chimodzi, chilimbikitseni. Ndipo pokhapo gwirani lotsatira.

3. Osachulutsa bala

Osayesa kusintha msanga. Yambani pang'ono:

  • Mukufuna kupita mukuthamanga? Yambani ndi kuyenda.
  • Mukufuna kulemba buku? Lembani chiganizo chimodzi chimodzi.
  • Kodi mukufuna kuyambitsa bizinesi yanu? Pezani kasitomala m'modzi.
  • Mukufuna kuwerenga mabuku awiri pa sabata? Yambani ndi tsamba limodzi patsiku.
  • Kodi mukufuna kusunga ndalama? Osagula zovala zomwe umavala kamodzi kokha.

4. Gwiritsani ntchito mindandanda

Zimachitikanso kuti munayamba kukhala ndi chizolowezi chatsopano, koma posakhalitsa munayiwala. Pali zinthu zambiri zosayembekezereka m'moyo. Zikuwoneka bwino ngati mwaphonya tsiku limodzi kapena awiri. Koma sizophweka. Ngati munyalanyaza kukhazikika, chizoloŵezi sichingayambe. Gwiritsani ntchito mindandanda kuti mukumbukire zomwe mukufuna ndikuwona momwe mukupita patsogolo.

Kumbukirani, mukupanga zizolowezi kuti mukhale bwino. Yang'anani mndandanda watsiku ndi tsiku. Ndipo tsiku lina mudzadabwa kuti moyo wanu wasintha bwanji chifukwa cha zizolowezi zingapo zosavuta.